Don’t Talk To Men.
Strange how the world progresses at such a
constant rate and yet all that glares at us is its rate of change. Its dynamic is so evident it’s not uncommon to
find people completely blind to what is really out there. You mustn’t think this
the reason why you shouldn't talk to men.
Growing as children most of us are blinded from the “realities” of the world. Some of us are lucky enough to be showered
with the necessities others may look upon as luxuries. Nonetheless we moved
along the world in such carefree state until “reality” began to beat rhythms
that threw the carefree spirit into frenzy for blissful survival. Man’s
attitude towards his fellow man can be the most beautiful thing to observe but
upon close analysis you’ll be startled at the ape-like mannerism most people
lead their lives cause of variables that have grown from conditioning; a man
embezzles wealth because he fears losing his current status even though it
leaves millions hungry and in want. A schoolgirl gives her being to that boy
cause she seeks the approval of b**ches whom upon close analysis don’t give a
damn if she exists. All to what end?
Being in Nigeria where most people cling to
religion as though their birthright depended on it. It seems ironic that most
of us allow ourselves to be run down by trifles these religions demand we
ignore. Such as the stupidity the Nigerian government abuse us with from
neglecting to provide basic necessities, the reckless teenager that spills his
drink on your shoe. The boy/girl that refuses to look your way even though
you’ve been wearing killer dresses for the past one month. All of which brews
insecurities due to fear, resentment, apathy and a host of other emotions that
only bring about detriment to uplifting goals we should have in mind. We
concern ourselves with idle gossip and useless rumours and information that if
matched with what we should have in mind do absolutely nothing to help in our mental,
physical, emotional and spiritual progress. We do this simply because we talk
to other men, most of the time without even using our mouths. We make vile
assumptions from the sweet rumours that caress the ears with its uselessness,
from the moulded countenance on another’s face. Its lies within our duty to
look within ourselves to find that thing which is bigger than all men combined.
It’s constant and unfolds with or without your consent to the dynamism that
seems so evident. All that’s important is how aligned we are to this Presence.
So, here’s a basic-pulse for you, start out
your day feeling like you are the hottest being to grace the earth. Look out
for things that you would usually overlook. Like the abundance of green and
blue, how green, blue, brown, red, white and black display nature’s grandeur
and style. Listen for humming birds, laughing people, beautifully composed
music. Search for the best in other people and life will present you with the
very best in ways you could not dream. Not because you shouldn’t talk to men
but because you realise that what lies within them is what lies within you.
W.P
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